This can be a really great question but the timing matters a lot. This isn’t a great first date question because if you ask it on a first date you’ll get the response that people *think* they should be giving. Oh, well you know, I’d work out in the morning, spend time outdoors with my friends, read a novel etc etc… A first date will probably answer this like an interview question. But on a fifth or sixth date, the time and trajectory of your budding relationship allows for more authentic answers. I’d sleep in until 11am. I’d make a gigantic breakfast burrito. I’d go for a walk with my mom. (As an added bonus, the answers to this question after the fifth or sixth date will give you great ideas for the seventh and eighth dates.)

Source: The question bank from the 1997 landmark study out of SUNY Stony Brook on Interpersonal Closeness (famously discussed in 2015 in the wildly viral New York Times article: “To Fall In Love With Anyone, Do This” )

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