Maybe your sister would’ve wanted to be the oldest by 5 years. Maybe your brother would’ve wanted to still be the youngest but not by the 8 years that actually separated him from the rest of the pack. Hearing the “why’s” behind the choices will put you into your siblings’ shoes. You’ll get a glimpse of what your family looks like from their perspective. (And perspective is always a good thing!)

Source: WBQ Original

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